I wish my hubby can be more hands-on and supportive.. my hubby's idea of helping is by staying at home (not going out) with me.. all he does at home is to play iPad, surf youtube, online shopping.. while i do the feeding (via bottle), change diaper, bath, coaxing the baby to sleep 24/7.. I am so stressed out.. how can I talk to him about being more hands on? I need to have time out too..

it took me 4 months to finaly sit and have a good talk w my husb.. he was brought up the way that man goes out to wk while the wife stay at hime and take care of the house and the kids. i cannot possibly blame him fir letting me handle my lo 24/7. what i did was do things that he miss doing w us. like movie date. couple time. so i aak him to help w things at home so i wont be so tired daily and promised that 2 week 1 time we will hv a movie date night. just us. sometimes man are like babies. you hv to tell them then they will do. so he help me out w bottle washing and sterilising. also i make him play w the baby 2 hr daily for more bonding him and lo. it was difficult but until he gt the hang of it. now everything is auto. plus feeding and bathing the baby. and as wen he is off. i start my day at 12 noon.