i get angry to my child quickly

I want to admit my fault... I get angry with my child very quickly. It's so easy for me to yell at her. I always get annoyed when she has trouble eating or take a long time when we need to go somewhere. I find her very slow. I don't want her to become a spoiled child! Honestly, I'm confused about why I'm like this. Before I had my own child, I had nieces and nephews. I loved them so much, and I was even their favorite aunt. But for some reason, I can't feel the same way about my own child. I felt guilty for yelling at her yesterday when she hid something from me. It turned out she wanted to surprise me for my birthday. But I felt it was unnecessary. By the way, she is almost 4 years old now. Why am I like this...

Vô danh

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Can i say something? I get angry at my children too. But think of it this way. How does it feel when no one understands you, and all you needed was alil help and some love, and all you get is being yelled at. From someone you love and whom you thought should always be there for you and protect you. All you need to understand is that this is their learning stage and accept that not all children are the same. Some may need more time, some maybe have learning difficulties that we as parents, have to understand and learn how we can help them. Not to always pressuring them. It can cause trauma to that child that can last forever if we dont mend it asap. My kid just turned 4 too. I will always remind myself that my children didnt asked to be born. I am the one who always prayed to have them and so i it is my responsibility to care, love and protect with my best abilities. Yelling at them constantly can be seen as an abuse. Mentally. And we dont want them to suffer like that. Let her grow at her own pace. 🌻 she will shine if you let her. You can do this mummy!! 💪🏼

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