I resigned from my work to be a SAHM this year, n hubby said since I'm a SAHM , I should be doing 100% of the housework n taking care of children n cooking etc. He won't lay a finger to help me cos he said he is in charge of bringing back the money for family .. is it supppsed to be like that ? How about his bonding time with the kids ? I'm so sad ?

I hire a maid and don't even expect my maid to do both cooking and childcare. If she's taking care of my child for full day, I order food online so that she does not need to cook. I only expect her to cook and clean when my child goes to daycare. When your husband come back from work, he should be sharing some childcare responsibilities with you. You work 9 hours in daytime and he work 9 hours in daytime; so why can he rest at night and weekends and you are still working?