I resigned from my work to be a SAHM this year, n hubby said since I'm a SAHM , I should be doing 100% of the housework n taking care of children n cooking etc. He won't lay a finger to help me cos he said he is in charge of bringing back the money for family .. is it supppsed to be like that ? How about his bonding time with the kids ? I'm so sad ?

My husband ask me to be SAHM because he said he doesn’t want me to miss growing up with our baby girl. He provides me pocket money every month also help out a lil (changing diaper, wash milk bottle and taking care of her when I need to be out for IPL appointments for 1-2 hours). But mainly all the chores (moping, vacuuming, washing clothes, ironing his clothes, washing bedsheet etc) all I will do. And I will wake up every night for diaper change and feeding. He doesn’t wake up for any that since day 1. I think you should have a serious discussions with your husband because your job as a SAHM doesn’t end after 8 hours. It’s all about team work and you need your alone time and rest too once a while. He should help out a little because it’s also his BABY. What about bonding sessions with baby? He doesn’t wanna get involved too? Then what’s the point having a baby together?