unhappy marriage

i never thought marriage would be this way. my parents are still together and have been together for so long i thought i could make my own work the same way. instead, i often feel regret nowadays, i feel sad, uncared for up to the point it is really getting depressing. i just gave birth to our second child more than 3 months now and i am not feeling the support i need from my husband. i am clueless on what to do, i feel like running away with my kids or even sometimes taking my own life for the sadness of choosing to get married, which appears to be very wrong and lonely. though i love the kids and is very happy having them in my life, being stuck in this marriage appears to be a really not good idea and i hope i have done every thing i could back then to avoid it. it's just sad, i am sorry.

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Mama, I hear you, and what you're feeling is so real at kapakali ang postpartum period, but please, please talk to a doctor or call a mental health hotline today, okay? Thoughts about taking your own life need immediate care, hindi ka mag-iisa dito. A few of us mums have been through rough patches with our partners after birth, and it's heartbreaking, but depression after having a baby is something a professional can actually help with, it changes how you see everything, including your marriage. You deserve support, whether from a counselor, therapist, or both, kaya please reach out. Your babies need their mama healthy and happy, and you're not selfish for needing help, that's the strongest thing you can do right now. You're not alone in this, I promise.

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