unhappy marriage

i never thought marriage would be this way. my parents are still together and have been together for so long i thought i could make my own work the same way. instead, i often feel regret nowadays, i feel sad, uncared for up to the point it is really getting depressing. i just gave birth to our second child more than 3 months now and i am not feeling the support i need from my husband. i am clueless on what to do, i feel like running away with my kids or even sometimes taking my own life for the sadness of choosing to get married, which appears to be very wrong and lonely. though i love the kids and is very happy having them in my life, being stuck in this marriage appears to be a really not good idea and i hope i have done every thing i could back then to avoid it. it's just sad, i am sorry.

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Mama, please reach out to a doctor or counselor right away, what you're describing sounds like it could be postpartum depression, and you deserve real professional help, hindi ka dapat nakakaramdam ng ganito alone. Ang thoughts of hurting yourself ay serious, at may resources kami dito, you can call the National Center for Mental Health hotline or go to your nearest hospital. I know it feels hopeless now, but postpartum is a medical thing, hindi ka failed mother o wife, your brain and body need support right now. A few of us moms went through something similar, and talking to a doctor changed everything; seryoso, it's not weakness, it's exactly what you need. Your kids need their mama healthy and happy, kaya please, make that call today or have someone take you. You're not alone in this, and this sadness is treatable.

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