I know this sounds crazy, but I think my maid is trying to poison me. She prepares food for the entire family, but because of my dietary restrictions, she makes separate meals for me. I have had food poisoning 3 times in the past month and I'm starting to think it's no accident. I can tell she doesn't like me but never thought she was capable of this...my son loves her which is why I'm reluctant to let her go. What should I do?

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often our helpers don't fully understand the logic of our expectations. she may think it's so much work to prep a sep diet for you and get shoddy...try to have a good talk with her and manage your requirements. they really come from a very diff world. also, as a family counselor, i would say that our children NEED to attach to someone and prefer their parents. if they attach to someone else, the parents should step up... all the best to you!

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If I were you I would surely get rid of her asap. I think consoling your kid if he feels bad is better than actually keeping some kind of a psychopath (if at all). I also like the idea of putting cams to keep an eye. But don't think its a cost effective long term solution. Trust is something very essential with your maid as she has a lot of control over a lot of things (like what food you eat) irrespective of your vigilance.

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If you feel uncomfortable and insecure with your helper, you should consider to let her go. Agree with others, if you need to find out, try installing cameras at home. A few resources to help you with nanny cam installation: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DOuu2rGZzWU http://nanny-cam-review.toptenreviews.com/ http://www.ehow.com/how_2342381_build-nanny-cam.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aLiCLlQ9dEU

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It will be scary if your maid is really trying to poison you! You can try to install camera at home to monitor her first. If she is really trying to do such dirty trick, you should report to police and set her right away. If she has the intention to hurt you, in future she might hurt your children. It's better to play safe than sorry!

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how can you be insecure in your own home. plus this is a dangerous as it concerns health and life. but if you want to give benefit of doubt. insure CCTV. else, you should give priority over your own health and safety

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Let's hope that this is just a coincidence but I would definitely look into installing a nanny cam in your kitchen just to be sure! Agree with Diana, if she really does want to hurt you, you need to find out!

GOSH!! My guess, you send her back to the agent right away! This one definitely can't keep. Also install few cameras to avoid such instances in future.

thanks