How to deal with paggro mother just cos you don’t listen to everything she says?? Thanks in advance

I know it’s out of concern but it has become quite extreme like insisting that I buy expensive bird’s nest for myself and when I commented I’d rather spend on other things, she started become passive aggressive and say ok next time don’t have to give me advice etc, don’t need to listen to what she says. And then when she saw me drinking yakult she nagged at me SO MUCH, says ok don’t listen to me then. #advicepls Don’t know how to deal with this!!! It’s just gonna get worse next time if I don’t listen to any of her “baby advice”

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I would jokingly ask “You wanna buy for me instead?”. My mil like to nag at me sometimes when I drink bbt, or eat mala etc. I just smile and say ok then continue what I’m doing. Sometimes I purposely buy her portion so she will drink or eat together then she won’t nag 😏… If it’s your mil, ask your husband to do it. Just smile and close your ears. My mil stopped nagging so much now after my baby is out. Her focus is on my baby instead. However, things I said NO when she wanna give baby, I stick to it firmly. Cant be bothered too much now 😅

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SMART THINKING!!! HAHAHA