Hi dear. Its ok to cry. You are not alone. It takes time. It's not easy but don't give up!
Your husband is upset too but somehow I think guys are stronger, he won't show it or cry it out like us women. After your confinement, go for a short trip if needed. Talk it out, don't keep to yourself.
Just to share, I even had 2 miscarriages at 18weeks & 8weeks. I was extremely down with my first miscarriage. I miss her so much, i cried almost everyday. I blame myself for not doing better. Worst part was that I had to face 2 pregnant colleagues at work. Been more than a year passed, now that I am pregnant again, I still miss her & think of her. Don't give up! ***Hugs***