Hi I had big argument with my husband, Would like to ask everyone on how to deal with as he asked me for separate and end our relationship. I suppose to pick up with parents who are mid 80's and he did not want me to pick them and told me that my daughter needs me more and mentioned that my parents are selfish. I tried not to speak with him and he scold me in the car and shouted at me "Do you want me to be very angry? " You wanna see real me? No matter how much you pay for things, Your F*** duagther wants to see you. (I just want pick my parents then come to our home). then he said, he can't live with me and ask me to sort our relationship. What should I do?

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I see that there are other things which might trigger further into this argument. A fire will not just start on its own. Is ur hubby get along with ur parents or family members these many years of marriage? How were your relationship with him before marriage? You might like to think back thru these years if he had any misunderstanding. He might sound selfish towards elderly. I don't see any wrong if you are doing wat a daughter should do for your parents. I will advise seeing a family counsellor to help out by giving you the best advise and hope thru this can help you to understand your hubby better. Jia you!

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