I Want To Try To Conceive But I Am Scared Of The Pain

There are multiple methods of pain control during labour and even during your recovery after giving birth. You can attend pregnancy seminars, which often talk about pain control methods during labour. But at the end of the day, pregnancy is a sacrifice mothers make, and it's best that you truly want to go through pregnancy. Have good discussions with your fiance on your worries, and make sure he's going to be there to support you every step of the way if both of you decide to try to get pregnant. A husband's support throughout pregnancy and labour and even taking care of the baby makes a huge difference :) and you'll forget about some of the pain too!

I am also scared of the pain at first and asked for c section. But after that the doctor told me c section needs longer recovery time and actually will hurt even more cause the opening is much bigger compared to natural. So but after that I was like okay natural i will bear with the pain. Then the pain was miserable I was so stupid to bear until it was 6 cm open. If u wan to have very low pain tolerance you can actually ask before it starts opening that much I bet u wont feel that pain. But afterall, mother is the greatest. The moment u see his smile and his first cry. When u think back u will feel worth it. Support you to have your own baby♥️

Don’t worry too much, pregnancy journey will change your attitude, your life experience, all it come to a great ways, you love yourself more and your child. I have same fear and freak out of everything ... but end of the day, it made me happy than anything in this world. Stay positive and be brave !! Mother instinct is amazing !!

I same as you. At first I pregnant, due date coming nearer I so afraid who knows early than I expected (water bag burst) . I'm so worried, I already start thinking of c sect, but nurse encouraged me to natural birth. My pain tolerance also very low, so I took epidural. After LO come out everything is worth.

i too was terrified of birthing process! my friend had vaginal birth without epi and she said was very painful! which frighten me even more!!! but when time came, i just opt for epi and i could not feel a thing I swear! epi wise just feel like normal injection very fast cannot feel anything already.

I'm one who is very scared of pain also, especially needles and pokes that really scares me. Both of my birth are csect which is painful, but the thought of seeing the baby come out fine and healthy is all worth it. Go for it.

Don't scare yourself too much. It is really not as bad as you imagine. You may eatch tv ir mivie they are like screaming and all, but in reality, it's different. And congratulations to you upcoming wedding!

No i did not asked for epidural. I just faced the pain all by myself😁. You can do that. Just believe that you can do. Believe me. Even just small cuts on my finger i cannot move all day. Low pain tolerance

Don’t worry. I have a very low tolerance of pain too. But I going to have my second one. The most important is to have faith and I believe you can go through with the support from your hubby and families

Please believe that all women has pain tolerance instinct when come to giving birth 😄 (or just choose to have epidural) everything will be so well worth when you see your little bundle of joy ❤️