I feel im the worst mom

Hi i just found out im 12 w pregnant. And sad to know that i have cyst size of 2.8cm outside my ovary. I know its not that worst yet, but to find out bout that i dont know how i can cope with being pregnant and handling 2 kids below 3. I even lose weight. Sometimes i dont know what to eat. And everything is on me. I feel sad that ppl say my 11 mnth baby quite light. I feel like i didnt do my job by giving my kids a proper meal. How to? I myself in this condition.

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Hey mum! I am in my 1st pregnancy now & I see to you as inspirational. You have 2 kids, being pregnant wif 3rd, u have to care for your 2 kids & for urself. You are a powerhouse. As for cyst I don't think it's a concern. I got pregnant aft finding out I have cyst, which was told not a concern as long as smaller then 5cm. My cyst was confirmed to be not a concern & doesn't seem like one that grows. If your Dr says so too then mum, you have one less of a concern :) Abt ppl sayin hw ur child weight is nw; pls ignore them. As long as ur 11mth is okay, as in nutritional intake is good, waste eliminations is gd, sleeps in & if Dr say ur 11mth wt is fine, why care to wad others says rt. Like as thou they are one who are caring for you & ur children😒 And mum pls don't say that you are in a 'condition'. It's stressful yes, but it's not a condition mummy it's a phase that's all. Take sm time before sleep if can to type down ur thought process. Better if you can find time to write it all down. Jus write & write. Aft few days go back read thru & u will realise you hav gone pass those days & so will be your that day hardship. It will end at night & tmr will be a next day. I know easy said then done. I wuld not be able to do wad u are doing. But look again mum, uou have done this before. You are your hero that you can look up to, that you have done so much before & cross over the difficulties of being pregnant while having a child to care for. All you got to do now mum, is do it again. Sure to u can do again :) Like I said, you are our inspiration🤩

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