Feeling depressed

I just delivered my baby about 20days ago via cesarean. I am doing my confinement now and I don’t feel good with everything. I just feel that I am very ugly (because of my bulgy tummy), dirty (because of confinement, I can’t wash my hair every day and I am still bleeding) and pain everywhere (wound, nipples and breast pain as I am only pumping and not latching). Does anyone else feel that way as well? My baby doesn’t want me when she cries as well. Sigh. #1stimemom #advicepls

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I felt that way postpartum too. and I was eager to get back in shape. I also thought I could regain my flat tummy and slim waist but truth is, I took 2 years to really feel normal again, even mentally. so, take time. avoid the mirror. focus that u are yr baby's world, give both of u and baby to get used to each other and also the new world for ur baby might be intimidating so be there for her. jiayou mama.

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