I am at my 3rd week of postnatal and I don't know if I am being sensitive or not. I have 2 sil and I saw the msg she give to me hubby asking is there any latest picture of my LO. So my hubby send them in the group chat. And the reply was "wah he look like me". Both sil reply that and I feel unhappy and sad. Like wth I give birth then the baby look like my sil? I told my hubby about it. He say they just comment and laugh it off and ask me to take it easy. Both of my sil is single and I am sure they will keep on being so irritating.

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I totally understand how you feel. Talk it out if this makes you tick. Dont bottle it up but learn to take it easy like what the mommy above advised. my baby is 7.5mo now. Guess what? Hubby relatives will comment our daughtee looks exactly like him or my single elder sil. Pissef? You bet! What do I say? I say to them, you all watch my hubby n sil grow up fr birth n not me, of course u wont know how i look like when i was a baby. fyi, she looks exactly like me when i was a baby. lets be honest, we all want to hear tt our babies resemble us mommies..i reckon daddies dont care abt this at all n it doesnt bother them somehow? but there comes along other female specie like mil.. sil... hubby's aunties... who like to add in their two dollars worth (not 2 cents only hor) of comments tt will irritate the sh** out of us. So I say, you cant shut their mouths.. you can only talk it out and write/rant it here on this forum. we are all here to lend a reading eye. take it slow n laugh it off. hugs n be happy as you just delivered not too long ago! ;)

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Same exact situation. Hi^ 5