1. Grocery money is expensive depends on the ingredients u buy. For example: the type of fish u want to eat, the grade of the herbs inside the tea/soup (ie: quality). And you can ask the nanny to cook the food u wanna eat & the frequency compared to pre determined menu.
2. Actually not true. The nanny are trained to take care of baby + cook etc. And newborn is eat , poop , sleep, repeat. And if you are breastfeeding, the baby is with you for feeding. And if you remove the cooking, the nanny job is to change diaper + bathe baby only?
Baby only wake up to feed + interact awhile with you, then goes back to slp. And honestly, if baby wake up, I think you want to hold and bond with the baby & wouldn’t pass the baby to nanny (except at night).
My nanny can cook + clean + have her afternoon rest time in room watch YouTube or chitchat with us. However, sometime we need to look after the baby when the baby wakes up (eg: feed ) when she cooks which is perfectly fine with us.