I can totally relate... it must be your first child... first time parenting... usually mother can fit into the role automatically with mother's instincts... however not for daddy who has no experience at all and will take longer time to realise "ah i am a daddy now, i must change my lifestyle already"... sorry to ask but is the child came unplanned... for me it did come unplanned... and my husb could not adapt to the change in the lifestyle at all... we quarrel many times for the child's 1-3 years old and sometimes blunted out we would be happier without the child... but then finally he starts to communicate with him, play with him, educate him and have fun laughter together after enduring all those hu-ha... my husb even think of wanting a girl next time... i ask him if he is going to learn how to take care... he say sure, i will take care of her at night as he works night shift... oh gosh
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