My husband talk to me lastnight and opened up the plan of officially taking his other child into our house . Dont get me wrong but is it okay for us ? Please enlighten me :(

It is a tough undertaking, Yesha. But then again, your husband is just simply being a father to the child. Sit down with him and talk to him about all your worries and concerns. Also make sure that taking the child under his custody (and your custody) has been agreed upon with the mother of the child.