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My husband, many times I told him let me be alone when I'm stress, quiet or angry. I'm a human and I need to express my emotion too. Our space is small I have no where to hide myself to vent my emotion. He took everything to himself. He always think my target is him when I'm angry or scolding. He expect me to be soft spoken all the time, well behaved and control temper. I'm a human. Can't I have own emotion? He said I like to give instructions but if I don't give instructions he won't move or don't know what to do. my child has learning disability. I need to train him those daaily basic things so that he won't get laughed discriminated by schoolmates and teachers. I can't always be angel to everyone. I have my frustrations too. Can't he always put in his mind to take initiative to help, I don't want to keep saying and giving instructions. I'm tired.

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I feel you. On many occasions when I tell my husband off, he will just reply me “I am like that.”. But when I replied the same thing to him, he finds that im unreasonable??? And when I asked him, why he can reply me that way and when I do the same he feel offended, he told me “So you trying to take revenge now?”. After my kid, I don’t bother anymore. Waste of breath and saliva. Don’t depend on your husband, if he wants to help, help. Don’t make your blood pressure rise. It feels as thou you no longer have the rights to have your emotions once you have a kid right? Like they always forgot we are only human too.

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