No longer love my husband

When I first moved in with husband I think I got high blood pressure from getting angry daily at him. He doesn't help to do household chores at all. Leaves clothes lying around the house and dirtied the toilet so often. I tried telling him a lot of times but he doesn't listen so I've given up. But afterwards, I realise he doesn't do chores is because he doesn't know how.... I had to teach him how to use washing machine. Even now when he wash dishes also sometimes still oily. Toilet still dirty but after I gave up cleaning and he couldn't stand the dirtiness too he tried to clean now lol. I think a lot of the things you listed is more to do with hygiene and cleanliness but other than that I think he should be OK? Just try to communicate more. Nowadays my husband helps out with the chores so it's not impossible. As for caring for your daughter I think you should make him understand left over milk not that good and daiper should change when full. Tell him how would he feel if he has to wear pampers filled with pee and poop whole day. Not only smelly but uncomfortable. Unfortunately screen time wise I wouldn't want my kids to have any till they're older too. Dont give up on your marriage because of silly things like this. Good luck.

my dear, i think you are abit OCD and try to control. try to relax yourself, close one eye, you will be less tired. if got things you really cannot close eye, maybe u try to do it yourself. afterwards you sort of have achievement once done. really, dont over expect your hubby will do this do that, he will feel irritating, and you are the one that gonna tired by all your dislikes

well at least your husband isn't abusive, for mine case,we quarrelled and he kicked me in the stomach while I am having my menses that day 😭😭

I feel you. I have one here. maybe some guys are like this. when Mt. Pompeii explodes, he will be the first to feel the heat

Seems like the two of you need to go for couple therapy. And he’s absolutely right about no screen time

well, focus on the good! he sounds like a good husband. just messy in general which alot of guys are.

Communicate with him about your concerns

oh no that sounds bad.

Sorry to hear this. :(