Bet niyo bang mag-enjoy mag-shopping sa H&M mga mommies?

Being a mom, especially a first-time mom, is incredibly rewarding, but it's also demanding, requiring constant attention, sacrifice, and energy. As a FTM, I've experienced firsthand just how emotionally and physically draining it can be. That's why I firmly believe in the saying 'you can't pour from an empty cup.' It's a powerful metaphor I've learned from my experiences volunteering with NGOs. Imagine a cup filled with water. If you keep pouring water out without refilling it, eventually the cup will become empty. Similarly, if we moms constantly give without taking time for ourselves, we'll eventually become depleted. That's why I prioritize self-love. When I take care of myself, I'm better equipped to handle the challenges of motherhood. I have more patience, energy, and resilience. I'm also able to set boundaries and delegate tasks, which helps prevent burnout. However, self-love doesn't have to be complicated. It's not just about taking time off or buying material things to make ourselves feel and look good. The self-love I'm referring to is about learning to reach out and ask for help, saying 'no' when we’re overwhelmed, setting boundaries without worrying about what others might think, and being extra patient with ourselves. For moms, especially first-time moms, it's not selfish to love ourselves; it's necessary. By taking care of ourselves, we're not just pouring from a fuller cup but we're also setting a positive example for our children.