How to mitigate or minimize quarrels between husband and wife, especially on small issues?

Oh wow. I could have been the one asking this question. It's really common for couples to bicker over the tiniest things. It's very easy for me to flare up. I have a very hot temper. However, we always end up making up by the end of the day (or night). My husband will usually be the one to reason out with me where I'll just end up crying. I would say the key is to be mindful. Take note of your weaknesses and try to pause and decide your next course of action. I'm still learning.