How do you rekindle the flame of love for your husband? Most of our time is spent taking care of the kids, so we really don't get to spend much quality time together. I fear that this might take a toll on our marriage. Any suggestions for improving our relationship?

From a man's perspective, I would say the sex is the utmost importance. It's that part of the relationship we miss the most. When the baby comes in to the picture, sex come to a standstill. And then it becomes "when we can squeeze in time" then it becomes routine to "do duty". Once that spark is lost, the marriage is in danger of falling apart.