How many years apart you want your child to be? Initially I wanted 5 years apart but it didnt go as plan😂I wasnt on any birth control so that was expected but hey my 1st child is 3 year old this year and 2nd is only 4 months old, oklah not bad just nice the gap. As for VBAC, if you rlly wanna try for normal delivery, there are gynae specialises on VBAC :)