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It's a personal decision. It's not a kid you r getting in this world. It's a human being. Everything that makes tht kid will depend on what mindset you are in. Ask yourself Are u mentally prepared for this 20 year project? Financially stable for all the expenses starting from maternity to university? Are u thinking of this becoz of pressures from others or is it something that you and your spouse agree upon? What's his mindset and will u be able to care for his needs and insecurity also along with the kid? It's a thankless job... payments are mostly kisses, hugs and I love you's...! Acceptable?? Involves a lot of sacrifices...and adjustments. Ready for tht? If you can answer Yes to most of the above...you r ready. And please remember that being a parent is the most blessed part of our journey as a human. Not many enjoy this blessing. Not many have the luxury to ask this query to themselves. So if u have this privilege, go ahead. Nothing's there to lose.
you should take that call when you really feel that you want to have a baby, and not when others tell you to. a few things you should think of are how your relationship with your partner is and if you truly are happy and sure that you want to be with this person for life. also, plan your finances and time. understand how you will manage the many expenses that come with pregnancy and child birth, and for raising a baby. the time you will have to dedicate to your baby is also very important, so keep all of that in mind.
having a baby is one of the most amazing experience in the world, but only if you do so with the right person at the right time. talk to your partner and understand his thoughts. plan your finances and see how you will be able to devote time to the baby. see what all support system you will have if you plan to work after having your baby. end of the day, it is you and your partner who should decide when to have a baby :)
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