9 mth postpartum here. I totally can feel u. its normal though. myself also do not have any help,only husband. parent and parent in law not with us here. when I'm alone also can feel that, feel like i have too many(baby, house chores, baby things, adult/husband stuff, basically is EVERYTHING) to handle, now even after started working, still sometimes feel that though because you have one more thing(job) to handle. sometimes even feel like I lose myself after having baby, sometimes also would feel like am i not a good mum. I only have one baby now. sometimes I feel like don't want to care anything, will let husband go and take care baby for a while. just a while enough for u to gain back the 'normal feeling'. once in a while we need that. else we may get crazy.
now already able to handle well , it's time matters, slowly you will get to it too.
now can handle things well (baby need a clean and healthy place to grow) and still have time to spend with baby, just that I really don't have much alone time with hubby only 😅nobody take care baby)
you are not alone mummy. get ur husband help when you cannot take it, do not take it all by yourself only.
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