i would suggest to do things to your comfort level, and practicality. my mum and aunts all said cannot move furniture, don’t set up baby cot etc during pregnancy. do it only after birth.
but we do not know when is the birth until bb is born (if natural birth). and only assemble baby cot after birth? that’s going to be so mafan, and create unnecessary stress if your husband need to do it all alone, while concerned about you and bb at the hosp.
so what we did was doing all the moving, setting up etc before birth. my husband and some help to do all these, while i stay out of the house.
if all these cannot be done before birth, then how do the western countries ppl do nesting before birth too? it’s about what you believe in.
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