Upset with hubby

FTM here and was upset when hubby prioritise work over bb due date where it clashes with the month of his project contract start date at work. As a result he might not be available for me and during the period/month that bb is born. Worried to be alone in the hospital and also taking care of bb myself with CL. I think worse is he prioritise work over bb as I tried to ask him to delay the start of the project with his boss but he kept standing at his boss viewpoint. Maybe its preg hormones but just feel sad that it seems he feels work > bb. 😥 how does similar mum cope with this.

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FTM recently and used to think hubby prioritise work over bb. but after give birth actually first month the bb is enough to keep u and cl busy. First month hubby not really much use, just focus in getting well and learning how to take care of the bb will keep you occupied. maybe ask your hubby to take a week paternity leave when cl is gone is more important.

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i am a hubby. I do not agree that hubby is not really of much use.. I do not have CL so the 1st 2 weeks of confinement I got very hand on together with my mum in law I taking care of baby.. it's more on whether the hubby want to be hand on or not..