Marriage is to compromise between both parties and accepting all their flaws and not wanting the other party to do all the work and changes, likewise in a relationship.
IMO, both parties have to put in efforts. Don’t know housework, don’t know cooking no problem, learn. Otherwise hire a helper. If he got the time to compare, he sure have the time to look up some recipes and hands on.
Cooking and doing housework together can be fun too, it does not mean you get married, your wife have to babysit you and the house. Split up the chores, cook on alternate days. It don’t have to be a hard recipe, a simple omelette and veggie is a good start.
jessica