For the first time we had an argument regarding finances. He kept on telling me that he was frustrated bec I keep on raising our scenario that we have no savings and income. He is about to review for licensure and that means he's temporarily can't provide financially. I think he's putting the blame on me by venting his frustation that is according to him rooted from me being so concerned in our lackings. Can he blame me? I am SAHM and even if I want to help financially, how could I? He's somewat pressuring me to come up with a business, but Im not into business. I would rather be an employee than to think of a business I cant take care. :( help!

Vô danh

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Same scenario here. Although I'm the one earning for the family because he doesn't want to work at all and just focus on business when he doesn't have the capital. I've spent so much to help him establish several business attempts but not even one materialized. I realized it's really a big big problem when a couple have different perspective and goals. Sometimes, no matter how hard we try to adapt to our partner's interests, at the end of the day, we know what we want and what we can do. It's still a never ending problem for us, and I honestly don't know how to resolve it too.

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Home Random Talk first time had argument regarding finances kept telling that was frustrated bec i keep raising scenario that have savings income about review licensure that means temporarily t provide financially i think putting blame venting frustation that according him rooted from being concerned in lackings blame i sahm if i want help financially how could i somewat pressuring come with business but im not into business i rather employee than think