Feeling Unsettled: My Husband's 'Jokes

I feel that you'll need to sit him down and tell him that you need to share your feelings seriously. Basically, before even bringing up the topic, tell him that you wish to share something very seriously, so that he listens with the appropriate mindset and not assume that you're joking around. Impress upon him the seriousness of these jokes, and how they made you feel. He might defend himself saying tt he's just kidding,but let him know that you're very affected by what he's saying, and to stop doing it out of respect for you.

Really feel you. Your feelings are absolutely valid. Agree with the advices given. do let us know how it went after you speak to him. on the other hand i can say NO husbands are perfect. Even tho mine loves me very much, he has OTHER flaws that makes me wanna D.. him. Having that said, I know this is NOT right and can only pray daily for him and for G-d to give me the strength and forgiving heart. I pray that you will have this strength and see that G-d's mercies are new every morning.

Coming from a mental health perspective, I think it is important for you to set aside time to communicate your feelings regarding this cleaely to your husband and to ask him on his own thoughts and feelings on the matter. Clear communication regarding your feelings and boundaries are important in a marital relationship.

give him a big slap and tell him you want to sell him off to [insert name of a lady he hates] kidding. don't let him get away, warn him not to do it again and learn to respect you. you are not a hooker, for goodness sake.

Tell him calmly how u feel when u heard what he said.. The same way u wrote here. U hv ur right to express urself. Ur husband should know the boundary, some joke is not funny at all.

By brushing it off, you’re allowing him to do it. This seems like a juvenile issue. Just tell him to stop.

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