Disrespect partner

Everyone feels burnt out especially when we have to juggle between work and family. He is also keen to have a child together. But ever since we have a baby, life changes and I feel he is no longer interested in me. He loses his temper many times in front of me for the slightest thing, showing me disrespect in several other ways and in front of the kids. Keeps watching his handphone and never once initiated sex or even date nights. Always saying he is tired and refusing to help look after the kid or bath her or even washes her cup. I feel like I am being treated as a maid rather than a wife. He didn't even celebrate Mother's Day when he used to last year. Is it time to get a divorce? Is my life worth nothing? I so envious of my friends who manages to keep their marriage alive even after having kids.