hi everyone.. can advise on what circumstances do u voice out divorce?

For me, it would be infidelity and violence. For a couple to get married, they must have come a long way. Moreover, both of u have children so divorce is not only between u both but concerns the children too. They are innocent parties. Communicate to your spouse on the breaking down of your marriage. Give each other some time to cool down and think. Divorce is always the last resort.