Mama, you are not the only one…I once had a very heated argument with husband in first trim too. We shouted at each other till neighbours can hear kind, bang the door loudly, I cried like mad, then we went into cold war for days…I too felt super guilty towards my little one when she was just a tiny fetus 😢
when u feel better, talk to baby, apologise to him/her that you didn’t mean to scare him/her. It is just hard to control our emotions when our reaction is affected largely by hormones during pregnancy😞 talk to your husband too when both have calmed down…I did explain to husband after that on how a mother’s anger, raising blood pressure, increased heartbeat etc will affect baby. And my expectation on him to be more understanding towards me.
Things will be all right! Hugs!
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