Honestly i do and i feel terrible cause i know my hubby favors our oldest too. We have a 3 yr old and 1 yr old. After the baby was born n the oldest was 2 they were taken from us for 6 months n lived with grandma. Grandma took him home not us. So we didnt form the natural bond we did with the eldest. We love them both but i notice the baby dosent seem to get the same love. Hes almost 1 now and i have begun forming bonds but we miased crucial time