Do you regret having children? Do u wish you had gone for an abortion instead?

oh my i ever regret to be honest its not because they not good for me its because i felt i am not a good mummy to them..then one day my little boy who is now 20 yrs old came to me an giv me a card draw by him..its a thank u and love u mama card thats when i realise and from there i tried my best to make them happy.Having kids is a blessing only we have to need patience and cooperation with our partner.