Do you regret having children? Do u wish you had gone for an abortion instead?

Me personally, I don't regret having children. I got pregnant with my eldest unplanned and outside marriage, of course, I got worried for my future, for the unborn's future. What will our parents say? The thought came to me. But we did just what responsible people should do. Thinking of the past and present, there are times I am thinking what if I'm not pregnant then, what will I be now? Where would I be? Am I working abroad and pursuing my dreams? Those thinks often crossed my mind, but regretting? Big NO. I'm thinking maybe if I'm not pregnant that time, I would be pregnant eventually when I'm ready and when I'm married. But not regretting.Thinking I might be pregnant at different time not means I regret it. I hope you won't do abortion. Having children is wonderful, it's hard but it's fulfilling, too.
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