Do you regret having children? Do u wish you had gone for an abortion instead?

Never thought of having kids. Find them pesky and me n my hubby enjoy our 2 person world prefectly. Till one fine day i found put i am pregnant! We are in shock. Cos we had never had protection n all these years we did not kanna, so tot I am unfertile and we din care. Well, I am going to be a mother of 3 now. 1st 2 are boys and hubby wanted a princess and our #3 is finally a gal. Having kids is really a lot of diff. They did bring joy, but they also brought a lot of trouble, worries and stress. Last time i can buy whatever i want, go wherever i want ( with the limited salary but enjoy within the limit). Now i can only think what toys and books to buy, which tuition centre to go... I do love my kids, but if given a chance to reverse time and choose again, i will choose not to have kids. Becos i think i can't give them the best that i wanted. But I will not go for abortion, not becos of religious issue, but becos we have to be responsible since we create them. Actually i do not know if having kids are worth it a not, becos from birth u have to worry abt them, then when they grow up, will they really care and take care of u when u need them? Or will they just carry on with their stressful and hectic life of their own just like us? And who knows i have to take care of them for how long then they can really survive on their own. I really dun know and dun dare to think.