Did you and your husband have a "chat" about how to parent and come up with some basic ground rules -- about bedtime routines, how to say no, discipline etc...or did you just play it by ear? I find that my husband and I often have very different perspectives on things like who should our kid have a playdate with, outdoor vs indoor time etc...how did you resolve your differences?

Yes, we always have a chat on parenting. My husband interested in reading articles & parenting tips. He always guides me. We have 10months old son. we r in learning stage of parenting. Sometimes we have differences too. At that time, we will try to be cool & think twice to resolve the differences. Otherwise, it will have negative impact on kids. Even sometimes we seek advise from our parents or friends.