If someone doesn’t make an effort, regardless how you try, it’s useless. If he really cares for the baby, he would have taken the initiative to ask you instead. If you have to help him to spend time with baby, pretty sure even if he agrees to take baby on weekends, the task falls on someone else while he goes out and enjoy.
At this point, I would focus on baby instead. Don’t need to send anymore updates to their family, as mentioned above, if they have the heart they will ask you for it.
I grew up without a present father (my father is alive btw) but I would rather have an absent father than a father who is present but doesn’t care about me but just there for the sake of being there.
Of course, this is just my own POV, decide what’s best for you and baby and whether it’s worth it. All the best! 💪🏻
Anonymous