Cesarean belly

Dear mommies, I'm a cesarean mom of a 2 month old. Just wanted to ask how do cesarean moms reduce your belly? Even though it's already 2 months, my belly is still big. I feel kinda depressed seeing myself in the mirror as I used to be in good shape before pregnancy. After pregnancy, my belly goes so dark due to hyperpigmentation and still a bit bigger than my normal size. Please share if there's any way to reduce my belly. I didn't use a girdle or went for a massage yet coz many from my family said I shouldn't do it till everything heals. As time goes on, I feel too stressed due to so many changes in my body. Please share your ideas! #firsttimemom #RespectMyPost #AskingAsAMom #firstmom