Birthclub: September 2024

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ada x ibu2 selepas 2mggu keguguran sakit kepala.. ?? pls kongsi

Sakit kepala 2 minggu lepas keguguran tu memang boleh jadi, hormones turun drastis, stress, bleeding, maybe kurang tidur dengan emotional toll semua tu kombinasi lah. Tapi kalau it's intense or lingering, dekat check dengan doctor sebab kena pastikan everything's healing properly, especially lepas keguguran. Jaga diri tau, minum air banyak, rest macam boleh, dan jangan suppress feelings jugak, mental health part of recovery juga. Semoga cepat better, take care

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Mintak nasihat kakak2 yg berpengalaman..sy bru 4hari jd wife..before this mmg tak pernah buat seks..

Camane nk buang perasaan malu+geli ye? Yelah firstime nk bg org tengok kita punya..kami kawin muda..sy 18 dan suami sy 19..sempat ringan2 je tp bila suami nk raba yg bwh sy elak..kesian dia..dia sempat raba buah dada sy je td..sy jd malu+geli bila dia cuba nk buka bra sy..kami masih belum melalui mlm pertama pengantin..mandi pon sy bawak pakaian sekali pakai siap2 dlm bilik mndi sbb risau kalau dia curi2 tengok badan sy..suami sy berkali2 cuba tp sy takut.. betul ke kwn sy ckp nanti sakit sbb sy tak pernah buat hubungan seks jd kemaluan sy agak sempit..takkan sy nk tanya mama sy plak..nanti apa mama ckp..td suami sy bogel depan sy smbil tunjuk kemaluan dia tengah keras.. kenapa pnjang sangat?sy takut nanti tercucuk sy sakit😭#sharepengalaman #pengantinbaru

Sayang, it's completely normal to feel nervous, most of us felt the same way on our wedding night, honestly! The shyness and fear will ease with time and trust; a few of my mum friends told me the first few times were awkward, but it gets so much better once you relax and communicate with your husband about what you're comfortable with. Your hubby sounds patient, so take things slow, there's no rush, and you don't have to do everything at once; many couples take weeks or even months to fully get there. The pain thing your friend mentioned, yes, sometimes there's discomfort the first time, but it's usually manageable and gets easier; what really helps is relaxation, taking your time, and being honest with your suami about what hurts or feels uncomfortable. I'd really suggest having a quiet chat with a gynaecologist (boleh pergi sendiri, tak payah bagitahu siapa pun), they can answer your questions without judgment and give you proper info, which is way better than relying on hearsay, especially at 18 when everything feels so scary! You've got this, and remember, your husband clearly cares, so trust that, okay?

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Kerap berak tapi tak cair

Hai ibu2 , Selamat pagi . Baby saya skrg 7bulan 24hari . kemarin dia membuang kerap tapi x cair dan najis tu sikit2 jer . kemarin dlm 7x dia membuang . pagi ni 2 kali . tu cirit birit ke ? tp bdknya aktif je makan susu semua masi ok . Shud i bawa pergi klinik ? #bantujawab #Needadvice #firstmom

Hmm, mak, kalo frequent tapi tak cair, tu bukan cirit-birit lagi la, sounds more like dia passing stools often but formed, which bisa jadi normal variation je especially at 7 months when dia mula makan solids. A few of my mum friends' babies went through phases macam ni, especially kalau baru introduce new foods. Since baby aktif, feeding well, dan tak ada other symptoms, mungkin boleh observe dulu 24-48 hours, tapi kalau hari-hari macam ni or if you notice any other changes, best to pop by the clinic je untuk check, better peace of mind, and the doc can rule out anything else!

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Mengandung anak kedua sekarang, dah 36 weeks. Semalam start mengeras dan sakit bahagian bawah perut macam period pain. Takutnya🫠

Aiyoh, 36 weeks is still a bit early, so most likely ni Braxton Hicks contractions, they can feel quite painful and scary, I know! Since you're already carrying number two, your body might be doing this earlier than first pregnancy, a few of us went through the same thing. But best lah to give your doctor a quick call or text, especially if the pain keeps getting stronger or if you notice any bleeding or fluid leaking, better safe than sorry at this stage! Try to rest and relax a bit, sometimes when we're worried the tightness gets worse, so drink some water and monitor if the pains stay regular or just come and go randomly.

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IBU HAMIL CIRIT BIRIT

salam nk tnya kalau ibu cirit birit pergi hospital dkt ibu bersalin atau pn dkt kecemasan biasa

Assalamualaikum! Honestly, if you're having gastro during pregnancy, I'd suggest going straight to the emergency department (A&E) rather than labour ward, they're better equipped to handle it and check that baby is okay too. A few of my mum friends went through this and the A&E staff were really helpful, they did a quick checkup to make sure everything was fine with the baby and just gave them safe medications to manage the symptoms. Better safe than sorry during pregnancy, so do get yourself checked out ya!

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mak mak yang bersalin baby sept 2024, sekarang dah pregnant lagi ke? saya belummmm. trauma lagi hahaha

Hahahaha girl I totally get it, the trauma is real! A few of my mum friends also took their sweet time before jumping into baby number two, and honestly there's zero rush, your body needs time to recover, and more importantly, you need to feel ready mentally jugak! Give yourself grace lah, some people are back-to-back and some need a longer break, both totally normal.

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Braxton or real contraction?😓

Hamil 36 minggu 3 hari. Lately mmg rasa perut ni tegang je bahagian dpn perut maybe sbb cobtraction palsu. Tp td masa drive rasa mcm tegang n sakit sampai pinggang. Adakah tu contraction sebenar? Takde tnda-2 yg pelik-2 cuma rasa perut tegang n sakit sampai pinggang je #askforhelp #askmommies #sharingpain

Aih, at 36 weeks it's so hard to tell kan, tightening at the front with pain going to the back does sound like it could be more than just Braxton-Hicks, especially if it came on suddenly while you were driving. The safest thing would be to call your doctor or midwife and describe exactly what happened, they'll be able to check you properly and put your mind at ease, whether it's the real thing starting or just your body getting ready. In the meantime, try to rest and drink plenty of water, and if the pain gets worse or you notice any other changes, don't wait lah, just go to the hospital. Sending you lots of calm thoughts, mama!

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Anak lompat atas perut

Hi mommy nak tanya, bahaya ke tak ya? Saya sekarang pregnant 6weeks. Ada anak umur 1 tahun 10 bulan. Dia selalu sangat lompat2 lepastu landing atas badan saya. Kadang2 kena juga bahagian perut. Saya dh cuba elak tapi ladang2 tak jangka tengah duduk saja dia dtg lompat kat saya. Sekarang memang dia manja sangat nak perhatian lebih. Sampai selalu juga naik atas badan saya bila saya baring. Bahaya ke kandungan saya ya? Risau 🥹

Aww I totally understand your worry, especially when they're so small and unpredictable like that! At 6 weeks the baby is still very well protected inside, so the occasional jumps and landing shouldn't cause harm, but since you're feeling anxious about it, it's really best to check with your doctor or midwife just to put your mind at ease, they can give you proper reassurance based on your specific pregnancy. In the meantime, maybe try redirecting him to jump on the sofa or a cushion next to you instead, or give him that extra cuddles while you're sitting up rather than lying flat, so you can protect your tummy a bit more gently? Manja toddlers really do need that extra attention during pregnancy, so you're doing great managing both!

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Anak kurang menyusu

Hi. Nak tanya ada tak yg sama situasi dgn anak sy. Anak 11month dia kuat makan tp kurang menyusu. Dia akan menyusu time nak tidur je. Kalau time berjaga tu memang tak nak susu. Tp dia kuat makan cuma berat masih kurang wlpun kuat makan. Is it normal? Bantu me.

Ay, I understand your worry, really I do. At 11 months, it's actually quite common for babies to start nursing less during the day and rely more on solid foods, especially if he's eating well and nursing mainly at sleeptime. The thing is, as long as he's getting enough calcium and nutrition from his diet (cheese, yoghurt, leafy greens, eggs all work really well), the breastmilk becomes less critical than it was before. That said, the weight gain being slow even with good appetite can sometimes point to whether the food is sitting well with him or if there's something else going on, so it would be really helpful to have his paediatrician check him over to rule out anything, just for your peace of mind. You're doing a caring job noticing these details, mama.

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Si sulung yg lasak 😅

Hi mommies, mcm mana ye nk kawal anak yg lasak.. Suka sangat terpa mama dia mengejut and kadang terkena perut.. Sian si adik baby yg baru 6minggu dlm perut 😅 #pleasehelp #advicepls #advicemommies

kena selalu ingatkan ank sebb lama2 dia akan faham.. awal2 memg dia xbrpa faham..lama2 bila selalu kita nsihat.. automatik dia akan ingat.. take time..

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