Obsessive MIL or sensitive me?

Currently I am having my confinement. Started to get annoyed by my mil who tried to interfere me on how to handle my infant. 1) Finally managed to get my bb fall aslp, 2 hrs later she went to wake her up to bath. 2) Trying to stop Infant to sleep with us in same room. Keep giving excuses say I need to rest and sleep throughout the night. (In fact I need to breastfeed her) 3) Not giving me much chance to hold and cuddle my bb and take away my job to feed unless my hubby told her firmly i need to breastfeed her. Heard from my hubby she claiming just wanted me to rest more... Can anyone advise if I am sensitive or facing an obsessive mil over my bb?

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Seems like your mil is a very nice lady. I think she just want you to have a good rest so that you can recover well. Unlike my mil, totally don't bother to help at all 😔 I still rmb she asked me to bathe my girl on the first day I'm home. I had c-sec and she asked me to bend down, reason being, I need to learn how to handle baby 🤷🏻‍♀️I had post natal depression because of her. I have birth during cb, I have no one to help except her. Maybe you could tell her you need to bf your baby during feeding time? And the rest just let her handle.

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