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The question is: are you willing to show and teach your Daughter that the way you are being treated by your husband is the way a Wife is being treated? That was my wake up call. You need to sit down and think through this carefully. Do you want to be treated with such disrespect and bullying? Once you are clear on what you want, have a serious talk with your husband. If he doesn’t change, the final Choice on what to do will be yours.

Communication is the definitely the best... Another thing is... are you still trying to maintain your appearance like how you would have before you gave birth? I notice that a lot of mummies gets very tired from giving their all once they become a mother and start taking care of their looks lesser... Just wanna say that looks are very important as well.. since human are visual animals..

Hi, I am sorry that you are facing these situations at home. I would really suggest talking straight to your husband about all these daily happenings and how is it impacting the childhood of your daughter. Please also loop in your family and gain their trust so that you always have support with you. Hope things will get better soon.

It will be good to get to the root of the problem. Talk it out and try to be calm about it. Try and ask if there’s something specific that you can do to help improve things between the both of you? But of course it takes 2 hands to clap.

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Maybe have a date together and walk down the memory lane of how you both fall in love together? Hope for the best to you. Definitely communication and efforts needed. Hang in there! Stay strong for ur family.

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This really does sound good. Please have a good talk with your husband, just both of you and try n talk things out. Hope all goes well...

Maybe he's stressed over something. If talking with you doesn't work, perhaps check in with your in-laws?

You can maybe convince him to go marriage councelling.. stay strong mommy!

TapFluencer

If talking to him doesn't work, please consider couples counselling?

call me I will never ignore you Mami.. I love Asian moms

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