My boyfriend’s ex-wife is back, and pregnant

My boyfriend had separated from his ex-wife for 2 months when we met. After dating him for 5 months, he found out that his ex-wife is pregnant with his child. It didn’t end our relationship and because I love him, I let him be a father to his child. Now, the baby is 3 months old and my boyfriend has been spending more time with them. I think he’s falling back in love with his ex but every time I ask him, he would say he’s only there for their child. Should I trust him or should I just end our relationship and save myself from getting hurt?

My boyfriend’s ex-wife is back, and pregnant
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Honestly, having a baby involved changes the situation a lot, so him spending more time with them doesn't necessarily mean he's falling back in love. But at the same time, your feelings are valid too. I think the main thing is whether both of you have had a proper conversation about boundaries, expectations, and where this relationship is heading. If it's getting emotionally overwhelming, it might help to talk it through with a counsellor as well. You can check out Sofia Wellness Clinic [LINK REMOVED] they do relationship counselling for situations like this~ Hang in there!

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