I'm 26weeks pregnant...I felt neglected...

My bf and I haven't get registered yet(due to CB period). As mention we aren't married so we won't be able to live together. Therefore I have to deal everything by my own. Which I believe non of any pregnant women wants it... My bf is a gamer. He will probably sleep for few hrs and most of his time will be sitting in front his computer. He sleep in the morning and wake up in the afternoon. We don't text much.. and don't even mention about talk on the phone or vc.. Past few days maybe he realised and he started to call me every night ( I'm so excited everyday and can't wait for the night to come!!) Two days ago.. we was vc half way through he say that his friends ask him to play game with him and he asked me.. i say yes but my expression is a no. But I guess he just too excited to end the call or what idk... He say bye and hang up after me....... We didn't talk on the phone after that night. We don't text much at all. And he will never give in to me always fight for he right. Ever since this CB period started I been going through sleepless nights,no appetite, felt neglected and no mood with anything. I get emotional and cried every night. I don't fel happy with my pregnancy...yes pregnancy are extremely tired but if there is someone care for u by Ur side that will definitely help more than what I can say.

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You are able to register marriage now. https://mothership.sg/2020/05/marriage-solemnisations-in-person-june-2/ However, before that I would suggest you to think about it and solve the problem between both of you. You should share your feeling and expectations with your boy friend. Is he willing to change as he is going to be a father. He can't be playful and think of himself. Are you able to accept if he is reluctant to change? What if he is engross in his game and neglects both you and the baby? Are you willing to endure such life? Even if you are willing, it is not right. Is altercation going to be part of daily life? How about financially? I understand your feeling and may be in dilemma. If is a mistake, should one continue it or solve it before it gets worse? Just my two cents worth. I'm sorry I couldn't give you solution. Hope thing will be getting better for you. Enjoy your pregnancy and be happy. 🌈

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