Just to ask. When your relatives die or having some serious medical conditions do u inform ur pils to let them know? My father ask me to inform my pils that 1 of my relative just died. He said is a must because my pils also related. I told him "why must i inform them when its my family matters? Its not like my they need to know everything about me. As if they will tell me about them also." He replied "why u talk like that? U must respect ur pils and let them know." Wtf? After all its my family matters not them. I dont think its something that is very proud to announce. I mean, u dont have to tell "everyone" right?