No of kids

Anyone wanted more than one kid before giving birth to first kid and then change your mind after your first kid? I feel my husband is not suitable to be a father. He is reluctant to adjust his lifestyle for baby. He is always obsessed with entertainment. Eg watch running man during meals instead of watching baby and interacting with baby while baby eats

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If you feel that your husband is not suitable to be a father, my advice is not to have anymore children. My fren’s hubby is as such and I feel that she’s suffering. She has to do everything by herself and the hubby is just “all talk no actions” and still got the cheeks to hiam what the wife did. And also, when you are the only one taking care of the kids more, the kids will be closer to you & only wants you. Hence, the father will then say “the kids only wants u, not me”, hence have more “Reasons” to do his own things. So no. I will stop at 1 if I’m in ur shoe . I feel that both parties should be heavily involved with Parenting & taking care of the children.

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