Anyone of you got sole custody with maintenance of child n wife?? What is the circumstances?

hi magus. the only evidence i have i reported to police that he hitted me i see doc. waiting for medical report. he pointed knife at my dau. i hv voice recording. grocery, child exp all i pay. i dont ask for anything. indeed he pays for utilities. but then every month he expect me to put $ in joint acc where 95% he use n i hardly use. you tell me