anybody here has 1 child and is contented? Do they really need siblings?i feel so tired managing work child and housework, cant imagine if i have 2 i wld really hv zero me time.it's not gd for our marriage either. Is there really a need to "suffer so much just to give yr child a sibling"? also i dont have parents staying with me so it is already tough w one

Its a personal choice and most of the time, I still love the idea of having one child. Less daunting to feed attention to both spouse and child, less expenses, more ME time without attending to kids all day. If times are not good or having any parenting difficulties, one of us still able to stay at home to watch over the household. No need to ask so much help from parents or maid. Most of them are pros to me for having only one child. Siblings definitely have its advantages but I can see myself spreading thin and forcing myself to work for the sake of money.