anybody here has 1 child and is contented? Do they really need siblings?i feel so tired managing work child and housework, cant imagine if i have 2 i wld really hv zero me time.it's not gd for our marriage either. Is there really a need to "suffer so much just to give yr child a sibling"? also i dont have parents staying with me so it is already tough w one

Actually most important is u need to know if u able to accompany ur children if u have more kids and do u have time for them if u think u r not ready and feel tired I guess u might not consider to have another baby.. they do get lonely but if parents no time for both will be worse at least now one u have have time to keep him or her accompany but if two I guess will be too hectic since u have no time children need the right company then they will not be lonely... if imagine u r not free ur hubby not free and u got two children they can't get attention tat will be worse.. so seriously for me my hubby outstation only back once a year so am not considering of having another baby but I always find time to bring my baby out to have only US time so he knows tat I care and will always be there for him...